Once upon a time, way back when you were a little girl or even a little boy, you were given a dream.  That someday, you were going to meet that one person that you were meant to spend the rest of your life with.  The one and only, that someone special, finding that everlasting love, beyond a shadow of a doubt…your soul mate.   Then after a reasonable amount of time for a courtship and an engagement, the two of you would marry, settle down, spend some alone time together, then you would start your very own family.

            Lies, lies, lies, and more lies, I tell you!  Well, not the part about finding your soul mate or getting married, it’s that part about starting your own family.  It’s not always that easy to just “start,” especially if you're not that young when you finally found Mr. Right or even Mrs. Right...